my beautiful sister, i am sorry for coming to this thread late... somehow, it missed my radar, and i feel badly... please know that you are ever in my heart and in my thoughts, even when life does not have you down. the unfairness of life is a mystery beyond my comprehension. there is no explanation to be found in this life which resolves the mystery of an untimely death. but i have to believe that the two of you will be reunited once more, whether through heaven, reincarnation, or another distant Aidan of your beliefs... *tender hugs* love you...