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Offline pleasure{MTC}

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my grandmother
« on: June 02, 2007, 07:24:13 PM »
update to everyone:
She is in the nursing home. She is fading... i dont think she will make it through summer if she goes home... past my birthday if she stays in the nursing home. She cannot concentrate on a three minute phone conversation. She will be having a conversation with someone sitting there and stop... staring off into space. i dont know if we can get proof that it was over medication or not, but if it was... and she dies... someone is going to pay...
i appologize that i dont feel too much like rping too much, i dont even do my usual number of chores anymore... i will seriously try to be around for migration, but im very worried about my grandmother.
heather
We have a weight to carry and a distance we must go.
We have a weight to carry, a destination we can't know.
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We ARE the the weight we carry from there to here to there.
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Re: my grandmother
« Reply #1 on: June 02, 2007, 09:36:35 PM »
RT always comes first, and camp will be here when you feel up to it.  I know what it's like to watch a grandmother fade, the helplessness of that.  Gor - the chores, the role-play - is utterly insignificant compared to the painful reality of watching a loved one die in slow, degrading stages.  For some, Gor can provide escape from such; for others, it's just one more thing to deal with.  If Gor is going to overload your already frying circuits, please... take the time you need for you!

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Re: my grandmother
« Reply #2 on: June 02, 2007, 11:33:10 PM »
hugs ya sis, hope everything settles out, geez, don;t really even know what to say, well, just hugs
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Re: my grandmother
« Reply #3 on: June 03, 2007, 12:25:17 AM »
dee pretty much spelled it out.

Will keep your Grandmother and your family in my prayers.

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Re: my grandmother
« Reply #4 on: June 03, 2007, 06:25:27 AM »
your thoughts are in my prayers.. just do what you have to do .. like dee said.. we will be here when you are ready to come back.. leaves lots of hugs and kisses and choloates laying around


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Re: my grandmother
« Reply #5 on: June 03, 2007, 06:55:54 PM »
thank you all... im still TENTATIVELY confirmed to the gathering... but im not sure if i will be able to
We have a weight to carry and a distance we must go.
We have a weight to carry, a destination we can't know.
We have a weight to carry and can put it down nowhere.
We ARE the the weight we carry from there to here to there.
-The Book of Counted Sorrows

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Re: my grandmother
« Reply #6 on: June 03, 2007, 11:40:05 PM »
Understood.

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Re: my grandmother
« Reply #7 on: June 04, 2007, 06:01:32 AM »
oh sister......i wish you strength during this time....i shall keep you in my prayers and thoughts.......take a deep breath.....i understand what you are enduring.....just place one foot in front of the other.....and deal with things one at a time....otherwise, it will be so very confusing....please call on me...i have broad shoulders and am a good listener....hugs you alot

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Re: my grandmother
« Reply #8 on: June 04, 2007, 04:49:17 PM »
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

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Re: my grandmother
« Reply #9 on: June 05, 2007, 12:21:30 AM »
i thank you all for your thoughts and prayers and well wishes, once i know more, i will let you all know, im just plodding along trying to deny the inevitable at this point.
heather
We have a weight to carry and a distance we must go.
We have a weight to carry, a destination we can't know.
We have a weight to carry and can put it down nowhere.
We ARE the the weight we carry from there to here to there.
-The Book of Counted Sorrows

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Re: my grandmother
« Reply #10 on: June 27, 2007, 07:03:17 PM »
Take care of your grandmother i understand for mine just had open heart surgye and she is not doing well so my prayers are with you and yours my dear.

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Re: my grandmother
« Reply #11 on: June 27, 2007, 09:18:53 PM »
Yours is in my prayers also sis!!!

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Re: my grandmother
« Reply #12 on: June 28, 2007, 01:32:48 PM »
pleasure.. i send you much good thoughts that all will be fine.. lov ya sis miss ya ... let me know if i ya needs a shoulder to lean on kkkk..

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