still here, doing great(save for the humidity, i cannot live in a humid state cause of fybro and health stuff) so damn near couldnt get out of bed this morning!
its almost like a slumber party, sleepin in my daughters big room, seeing her dad again, its been fun, going through all the old family pics again.....shes started a turnabout, from the nasty faces and cursing at her father, etc, and not picking up her stiff(to refusing to bathe*L* we changed that when i stuck her in the shower and scrubbed her myself cause she wasnt taking care of a skin problem from stress*L*)
firm, but gentle steps are working great....shes gone from the heavy awful makeup and scowling to light, pretty skin tone makeup and smiling and glowing again in a matter of days, and were working on the language and respect for parents issue now*L*
hes just amazed....him and his gf....theyd given up trying to get respect and get her to listen, but now shes doing so much better....it did take the mommy touch, and not with force, just with firm eye contact and with guidance!
the cutting seems to not have been as bad, but any cutting at all is bad....theyre almost all healed now, so were working on her internal healing*S*
shes made her own decision to return with me to vegas, id cautioned her dad against telling her he wanted her to go, and, we just let her make up her own mind, so, shes ready to go and make new friends, (not the emop kind she has here now!) and enroll in the one nearest my, now our, house*S*
Im so very happy, tomorrow shes going to set up the school visit with me, and were going to work on a seamless transfer, along with her psychologist on tuesday, to get a good referral for vegas....
so! tomorrow will be getting the plane travel ready and booked, along with her things, a bit at a time so its not a huge thing for her to deal with all at once....i couldnt be more delighted....
shes beautiful, smart, and im not just biased either*G*
and with her long jabber with her lil sis today,(i say jabber cause her lil sis is 2 and a half*L*) she cant wait...i think them rejoining soon will be a great step towards her inner healing and feeling better.....its going good...were good, so, will hope to see you guys soon back at home!!!*hugs* will give updates as i can....!
we went to her favorite restaurant tonight, and, shes pleased as punch theres a live hibachi grill restaurant(the same kind*L*) right near our neighborhood in vegas!
but wow...lol...im glad i kept my cellphone minute plan at a high level, cause she talks to friends alottt*L*
