hi guys,
I just wanted to post a big fat thank you for everyone's understanding before, during, and after my surgeries.....
all 3 were successful, and all 3 post op visits when exceedingly well, I just have 1 more 8 week post op to go with the gyno....and the okies for extra curricular activities with the hubby LOL
you cant even tell one of the surgeons went in through my belly button to get the hernia, and the scar I have from total hysterectomy and bladder sling, well, my urologist loves me and he told me he used special stitching and a special way to stitch me up that plastic surgeons use, so when I look in the mirror I cant even see it, I actually have to look down and look close to even see the bikini line scar....it rocks.......AND no more cycles and no more risk of ovarian cancer!!!!! yay!!!!!!
I feel fabulous, I just get tired at the end of the day, and am a little achy, but arent we all?
today marks the 4 week anniversary of the successful surgery, and I've been back to work since monday ((wasnt supposed to go back for another 2-4 weeks, but well.....I conned her out of that as long as I said I would do part time for at least the first week.....well, its wednesday and I already have 20 hours LOL and 2 days to go....))
I now close on thursdays so thats 11am-8pm if all goes well, I took that shift to avoid weekend shifts, and I dont have Codie that night anyway...
speaking of that, the custody battle went as well as it could, the hatred is there, we dont get along AT ALL for more than five minutes if that, but we'll get into a rythm that will work eventually.......
just glad to be at work instead of being at home feeling useless.....I cant lift over a gallon of milk's worth of weight......laundry took me forever, grocery shopping took me forever cause I had to go back and forth back and forth......but anyway.......its all good, and I just had to thank you for all you've all done to help me along the way, from when I was pissy cuase they didnt know anything, to when they knew something but couldnt decide what they were gonna do, to ending up getting three surgical teams together for one event and home out of the hospital......you all stuck by me one hundred percent all along the way and for that, I am forever greatful, for real, the power of prayer, and thought, and love, is unbound and absolute in its ability to heal or send help........and simply knowing people care about you and they're all around the world is a phenominal feeling.....
so I've gone back to work....20hrs so far and 2 full shifts to go for this week......I can do it....not supposed to, but I can do it.....
the boys are doing great, youngest and middle are starting basketball season, and oldest is strummin away on his guitar daily in hopes of groupies someday LOL.......the land is coming along.....we've got the landing for the house, and the landing for the garage done....piping for the electricity, water, and telephone, and intercom system is done....next step is gravel and then the pouring of cement for the foundation.......and yes, of course the garage is being built first, where the hell do you think we're gonna put all our shit?
maybe I'll put up a short time line thing on my site so you can see it, its just so beautiful, and so us its ridiculous LOL
and in essence, I may be a lil tired when I come to camp, cause I'm not supposed to be doing squat for the next four weeks, as in sitting at home and letting myself heal, but here I am, me being me, and needing to get my ass back to work LOL.......if you made what I did, you would too dammit!
in any case, I dont have Codie on wednesdays and thursdays and everyother weekend, so barring good weather, that means puter time....depending on my ability to actually stay awake LOL
just know that I"m always by Ubar carressing his cheek, and never too far away from freezing My woobie's legs with My toes as frigid as the northernersLOL
love you guys so sos soso sos so sos os os much
and appreciate to the bottom all the way to the top of my heart---
everything lovely word you have sent me and my family's way...
you are all loved.....
Kar
