Has anyone come out and stated this to you, or is this merely your perception of how others are seeing you, based on a comment or two that you decided was directed at you? Could it possibly be that in your stress, your sensitivity at this moment with all that is going on in your life, you have overreacted?
Honestly, I don't know a thing about what prompted this post, nor is it my business. However, several seem surprised to see the content of your words, and that tells me that just maybe people aren't having a problem with you!