The wedding was yesterday evening, at least they had the ceremony in the shade, though near the lake, which was beautiful while the sun was shining across it, but once it went into the shades, the bugs showed up and everyone, including the bride, groom and wedding party were trying hard not to let it affect them, but the witnesses, were slapping and waving them away... ~laughs~
It was definitely an interesting ceremony, slightly traditional, but not.. I do have a copy of the video of the ceremony and will find a way to post it somewhere that will be under password, because we have some friends who are going to want to see it, as they weren't able to make it to the wedding... Anyway, the Pastor made the announcement early on that he wanted to see smiles on everyone's faces, as this was a happy occasion, I believe that whenever the family of the bride or the family of the groom started to tear up, he would insert a joke... My favorite part was the Pastor telling Russell and Karen how to have a successful marriage, that Karen would have to wear the fragrance of computers, and Russell would have to wear the fragrance of art supplies... ~laughs~ As my nephew is the computer tech for the local school district, in fact, the same one he went through for most of his life, except for 2 years, when his family moved in with my parent's place when he was in junior high... And she's a graphic designer, who works for a medical company and helps produce medication videos, or some such things that have to do with the medical things...
Russell has never looked so dapper or handsome as he did yesterday, nor have I seen him look as happy as he did when he saw his soon to be bride walking down the aisle toward him... And as the best man said, as we have all been thinking since they got back together nearly 4 years ago, it's about time they got married... ~laughs again~
Now my niece, ~chuckles~ Karen, who I have considered such since the first time I meet her, when Russell brought her to meet the entire family, who loved her the moment they met her, was a beauty to behold... She has had some rough spots in her short life, but with Russell right there at her side, she has gotten through them all and when she come out into the open on the arm of her father, I could see the sparkle in her eyes, and when she and Russell were reading their vows, the love she has for my nephew could be seen by all, the same goes for Russell...
When I finally got to talk to them after the bouquet, and garter were thrown, the dances done, I told Russell he now knew what Ray and I went through for our wedding, and when we told them we had just celebrated our 15th anniversary 3 days before, he blinked a few times and shook his head, saying he couldn't believe it had been that long, but he also said that he knew that we were meant for one another, and I told him that he and his new bride were also made for one another, it just took a while longer for them to see it...
Oh and before I forget, when the newly married couple came into the reception area, the song that played was the ceremonial theme from Star Wars: A New Hope.. and when he went for the garter, the song playing was Indiana Jones' theme music... ~laughs~ So yes, this wedding and reception was done very well... And the professional photographer, who also happens to be a good friend of the family, as she's been around since she was 5 years old, give or take a few years, took over 2000 pictures of the entire thing from start to finish...
~glances up and shakes my head~ sorry if this seems a bit ramble like, but I wanted to share with you the reason we came to Cali... to see my one and only nephew get married... Though the next one on the list is my niece, Kathrine, who, when asked last night with her boyfriend of nearly 3 years sitting beside her, we were told; July 12, 2012... And I have a feeling that if that date lands on a weekend or a Friday, that might be the day they do get married... The really funny part about his boyfriend is, he's 2 years younger than I.. But they are happy together, and I do believe if they make it to 2012, they will make it for the rest of their lives...