good point my Master. things have gotten out of hand and perceptions warped but other people thinking they know what is going on. Perhaps people need to be reminded that when they point a finger at someone, there are three pointing back at them. (just try it, Y/you'll see what i mean)
and agrees with dee about there being a big difference between being a friend to confide in and being a gossip spreader. i know people may mean well, but as a reslult, many people have gotten really hurt here. the road to Hell is paved with good intentions, loose lips sink ships, and any other cliche that is out there.