It's a long story, dee, but it goes something like this
We have a roommate. If we move out, he has no way to pay the bills for this place or the rent for this place. He has nowhere else to go, he will be homeless, living on the streets. Terran and I...are nice people, we can't do that to him, no matter how much we want to go and live in Illinois to be with family and friends. We just can't. -shrugs- we'll figure out a way eventually to move back.
As for the wedding, naw, no one can interfere..they eloped back in September, so no matter what, they are already married. Though...I maybe should pack a baseball bat/shotgun/short sword just in case! -lol-