been trying to post to this since yesterday...keep writing then erasing...guess i'm asking for prayers... though a big part of me questions God's existance right now...(my grandbaby is fine)...three month olds are not suppose to go to sleep and never wake up...it wasn't God's will or shouldn't be...she's not better off in Heaven...children belong with their parents...they shouldn't have to wait another four days to confirm it was sids...the family is beyond distraught, parents, grandparents, all that loved her...that poor woman whom was babysitting...please don't tell me they were lucky to have her for three months...my own daughter has every reason to watch her baby sleep all night...i will be scared when i babysit again too...it was my daughter's own cousin that died...it does happen to people you "know" ...there are no reasons...there are no answers...there is no hope for them to grasp on to...yet if i don't believe in God...why do i want to pray for Him to help all of them?...i know none of this makes sense...life doesn't make sense...please don't quote me scripture i'm not ready for that...please just keep that family in your thoughts...