Update on Ubar....
He is in my ear on the phone, and says to tell you all that he misses you all, loves you and wishes he was here instead of there.. we are going day by day now to see how things progress.. the next couple days will be the deciding factors. because as the clot shrinks, there is a greater chance of it dislodging and travelling.. if it dislodges and travels to the lungs, that means pulminary embolism and deep shit.. with luck, it will stay where it is and break up and be non=threatening.. he has to stay as long as possible in the hospital, so he can be kept an eye on. He wants to come home and is trying his hardest to not be grouchy about it.