My answer still stands, even if it doesn't apply directly to you. -winks- That was my only solution for my own personal feelings of stagnation as a pagar, though I feel that Mistress's and kadi's answers would be immensely helpful for other slaves! It just didn't work for me, because my problem wasn't role-play related.
I freely admit that I thought you were referring to yourself, since it's a feeling that many pagars do experience. Regardless, it was a good question, a valid question, and I don't think that you offended anyone with it... Nor do I think you offended anyone by clarifying that you were not asking for your own benefit, but as a general-purpose sort of thing.
Now that we have that out of the way, quit sputtering apologies! -laughs and hugs you-