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Offline pleasure{MTC}

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yet another absence
« on: August 03, 2007, 08:03:59 PM »
unfortunately, with my Father's death, it is unknown when i will be able to return. i am very upset and hurting right now. kinda struggling... i miss you all so much... i may show up in camp as early as sunday. love to all and thank you all for your well wishes and prayers.
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Re: yet another absence
« Reply #1 on: August 03, 2007, 08:49:16 PM »
Quote from: pleasure{MTC} on August 03, 2007, 08:03:59 PM
unfortunately, with my Father's death, it is unknown when i will be able to return. i am very upset and hurting right now. kinda struggling... i miss you all so much... i may show up in camp as early as sunday. love to all and thank you all for your well wishes and prayers.

Take whatever time you need.

Tuchuk understands.

Condolences on the loss of your Father.

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Re: yet another absence
« Reply #2 on: August 03, 2007, 09:59:58 PM »
rt first sweetie, we love you
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Re: yet another absence
« Reply #3 on: August 03, 2007, 11:57:04 PM »
You have my condolences, we are always here for you
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Re: yet another absence
« Reply #4 on: August 04, 2007, 12:45:43 AM »
~snugglehuggles you~ you are in my thoughts and prayers... take as long as you need... and remember we will be here waiting for you when you are ready to return...
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Re: yet another absence
« Reply #5 on: August 04, 2007, 09:45:41 AM »
YOU come first, before camp.  Do NOT rush yourself, hon. -hugs-
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Re: yet another absence
« Reply #6 on: August 04, 2007, 11:08:38 AM »
pleasure....my heart goes out to you in this time of loss. you, and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. take the time you need to get things...settled...inside of you. we will be here, with open arms when you return.

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Re: yet another absence
« Reply #7 on: August 04, 2007, 12:25:26 PM »
i know things have been rough for you lately, but we are here for you. miss you, glad you are back, thinking of you.  :-*
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Offline prism {*RgR*1*}

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Re: yet another absence
« Reply #8 on: August 04, 2007, 01:41:45 PM »
*looking at you with a softness in my gaze*

Losing someone so dear to you is never easy.. You have my prayers, my condolences.. I can't promise it will ever get easier, but I can assure you that he will always be around.. An angel watching over you.

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Re: yet another absence
« Reply #9 on: August 04, 2007, 02:21:51 PM »
take care of you hun.. time can always heal the emptyness.. as has been said.. he will always be with you watchin over you .. you know how to reach me.. lov ya.. so sorry for your loss...

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Re: yet another absence
« Reply #10 on: August 05, 2007, 08:15:11 AM »
i want to thank all of you for your caring words. its made me so happy to hear that people still care.

He was my everything, my best friend, my rock, my shield, the sword to defend me, my teacher, and the only man i loved with all of my heart. He was the only one i could open my heart to wholly and not be afraid that it would get broken.

Arlon was there with me through it all, and i want to leave my thanks to Him for all His support.

i worry sometimes that when the big breakdown comes... i dont know what i will do... i dont know how i will deal...

heather
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Re: yet another absence
« Reply #11 on: August 06, 2007, 05:54:07 PM »
alright, i think i can talk a little about it.

first of all Dad had a massive heart attack, i am given to understand that he died instantly.

we are starting to see some problems with the disposition of his estate. if anyone has any ideas on how to help, please pm me and let me know.

ive told this to many people in IM and in RT, BUT i cannot stress enough preplanning or prearranging your own services is a VERY good idea. making those kinda decisions under this kinda stress is difficult to say the least.

Love you all,
heather
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We have a weight to carry, a destination we can't know.
We have a weight to carry and can put it down nowhere.
We ARE the the weight we carry from there to here to there.
-The Book of Counted Sorrows

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Re: yet another absence
« Reply #12 on: August 06, 2007, 06:03:14 PM »
I am sorry for your loss.. I know it is hard for you ..for anyone to have to go through..it is epecally hard when it is a parent.. i have lost both of mine...just remember throught all of this to take care of your self ... camp and gor will be here when you are ready to come back... take your time.... also remember like most of us have already have said above and on messageners.. we are here if you need us... we may  not be blood line family.. but still we are a Family and we do stick togather... know that you are loved...


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Re: yet another absence
« Reply #13 on: August 06, 2007, 07:52:13 PM »
i request that pleasure be shelved for now... im having a lot of trouble dealing with this and am going to be under a psychaitrists care for a while and dont know when ill be back... i will try to check with the boards once a week or so i love you all and hope to be back soon.
heather
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We have a weight to carry and a distance we must go.
We have a weight to carry, a destination we can't know.
We have a weight to carry and can put it down nowhere.
We ARE the the weight we carry from there to here to there.
-The Book of Counted Sorrows

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Re: yet another absence
« Reply #14 on: August 06, 2007, 10:14:45 PM »
Quote from: pleasure{MTC} on August 06, 2007, 07:52:13 PM
i request that pleasure be shelved for now... im having a lot of trouble dealing with this and am going to be under a psychaitrists care for a while and dont know when ill be back... i will try to check with the boards once a week or so i love you all and hope to be back soon.
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LOA is granted.

Do remain in touch. We shall be here for you when able to return to role play... and you know we are here outside of role play as well.
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